Was she with her friends? I always say no when I'm with my friends because it's a safety issue...what if one you gets abducted?! ;) Hehe.

I had a bad experience where this one guy (who was like SHORTER than me -- and I'm only 5'2"), asked me to dance...and I was feeling particularly nice, so then I said, "Sure."

Okay, 3 minutes later, I figured out he'd asked me to dance because I wasn't that much taller than him AND he could still nuzzle my boobage with his face. GROSS. I pushed him away and said, "I don't like that..."

Maybe she was afraid the same thing would happen? ;) Hehe, just kidding...I know you're not like that.

Anyway, usually, if I'm with my friends, I'll just dance with my friends. It's just that dancing with my friends is a whole lot more fun than dancing with some guy...

I haven't gone clubbing in awhile...but if I ever see you at a club, I'll ask you to dance. :) I can be cute! Really! I clean up real nice...

Um... if a girl goes to a club or whatever, they should be with friends. I wouldn't ask a girl who goes by themselves to dance, because she's probably looking for more then I am willing to give up.

Asking a girl in a group is much safer. She was with friends, some were dancing with guys that picked up on them.

I usually don't go to clubs to meet guys; a lot of my friends are the same way. Actually, we do meet guys, but then we go home and forget who they were. :x

I don't know if the chickies you're meeting are the same way...but I think a lot of girls do the same thing. I know that I would never marry someone I met at a club. Don't know why. Probably because I meet the gross ones...and I'm not even skanky. It's weird.