August 7th, 2001


I just want to say one thing tonight...

"Right" is not meeting someone for the first time (whether or not you have talked to them for some time) and doing anything sexual with them. I was brought up that sex or anything sexual for that matter is something that should be cherished and treasured. Not something you just do for fun or just because you and the other person are consenting adults.

I'm a hypocrite yes, because in the past I have done somethings "just because" I basically wanted to get my rocks off. But I regretted in afterwards and decided that isn't the way I want to live my life.

I'm not posting this about anyone in particular (because I know lots of people that do things like this which I don't respect), but I am posting this because of something that has bothered my best friend fresh25 recently. These are my feelings and I just wanted to put that out there. I have many other things I have been wanting to write about the past couple months but just haven't been sure how to approach the subjects. Expect more soon.

I'm old fashioned, I thinking waiting is the more respectful and honorable thing to do when it comes to sex. That's just the way I feel now and the way I will feel always.

These are my thoughts about this subject. And you know what, maybe they aren't right for everyone. BUT it's very difficult to respect someone that can't respect themselves enough to think and feel this same way. Yes sex is great, but sex is best when love is involved and that is because that is the way it was meant to be.